Have you ever heard the rule: It takes half as long as you were in the relationship to get over it? If you haven’t, now you have, and if you have gone through a shitty breakup you know that that rule is bullshit made up by some one who was dealing with their hysterical friend. I know it made me feel better. I truly believed that I would just wake up one day and be over him. Like counting down days till vacation, I was so excited to get to that date. Truth is, it doesn’t quite work like that. Everyone heals differently but eventually you get to a point where you realize that you weren’t the same kind of person. You did not want the same things out of life and you were not meant to be together forever. Break ups are fucking terrible and heart breaking but remember that everyone goes through them and I swear there is a light at the end of the tunnel. Who you are and what you want all become a little bit clearer. Pick yourself up and know that there are brighter days ahead and you are beautiful, I promise.